Mothers Day
The words came so easily – not because they were fake, lies, or cliché. I mean each and every word of them. Its just…it never quite feels like enough.
Dear Mum,
Thank you for your continued love and support. You are an inspiration. I can only hope to be half the mother you have been to me.
Lots of love, Paula
I think I say the same, or words to that every effect every single year. Again…meaning every word. The whole point of this blog was that if I were to drop dead tomorrow, my daughter could know me, read stories of herself and have a truth of motherhood that only a mother can share. In the midst of my post partum depression, I became panicked that I was going to lose myself and leave her motherless…and so the true confessions began. No baby book, I’m afraid. Already, I cannot remember when your first tooth came through – it’s a haze.
So, I think of my mum. Incredible. Amazing. Loving. I could go on for days but somehow it seems empty because we have gone beyond that. I can say a million words by looking away from you and leaving a question hanging in the air. You can somehow read my hurt over the phone. You are my mum. You are irreplaceable. In fact, you are the one person on this earth that cannot be replaced. So here is something that I need to say…that i'd like you to know.
It’s hard to remember the context. It wasn’t said out of malice but the words were out of my mouth before I could stop them. You left the room and went upstairs without saying a word. I followed. I could feel the pain I had caused through your bedroom door. In the midst of all you were going through and all the pain you were shielding us from, I let you down. All of that...and I should throw that at you?
I’m sorry.
I can see you now, holding a crumpled piece of toilet paper in your left hand, tightly fisted with the white tissue peeping through your knuckles. Some of it is caught in your diamond ring. You tell me it’s ok. You tell me you forgive me. We hear him coming up the stairs and we both know you just want me to leave the room so you can curl up and sleep this away. I can respect that.
And then he was gone. Still hugging me, but I knew he was going to break away first. He told me to ‘get some sleep, it would be better in the morning’ and was gone. Back in bed with you. It was done.
I love you.
This was intense. I love how you're so open about all your thoughts and feelings, not caring who will read the words. They are out there for all to see, and they are so real.
ReplyDeleteLove you. Miss you.
ReplyDeletexoxo
Okay...you know me...you know that I don't just cry at stuff...So, here I am, bawling. Thanks. Love you all. xoxox
ReplyDeleteI hope I can meet your mom some day. I'm sure she is amazing just like you. xoxo
ReplyDeleteWow Paula
ReplyDeleteYou just made me cry again, but this time with joy & so much love for you.xx
ReplyDeleteDoes your Mum remember this? Josephine and I have had our moments, and they are the RINGER every time. And yet, I resolve to never go to bed angry or upset, to keep communications open, always, and to remind her that I was here first, so SHE picked ME to be her Mum... (oh, and I tell her I'm psychic, for good measure).
ReplyDeleteit's heart touching....
ReplyDeleteNice Work....
Regards,
Chirag Patel
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